Here is a 2016 post that I find relevant today; I hope you enjoy reading it. These past days you have been hearing me ranting (rather angrily, admittedly) about some of the more outrageous behaviors I have seen in the Second Life metaverse. Those two posts, Communications blues and I want it all, show in my … Continue reading More about control
And here, dear readers, is a 2016 post on communication that I find still relevant today. How many times do I have to repeat myself? How many friends, submissive friends, have I listened to while they told me their story of breakup and heartache and how that left them vulnerable? Yes, a Domme can have submissive … Continue reading Communication blues
One more pearl from my archives, this time from 2016, which in my opinion does not belong in the archives but here.These past two days I've been feeling indisposed with a nasty stomach flu. I'll not go into details as to what that does to me. However, this time allowed me to think about a … Continue reading Seven letters
This is, again, a post from my 2015 archives that I still find relevant today. This installment will be about safety. In the BDSM lifestyle, as we all know, safety is paramount. So many things can go wrong, that it's never beyond the scope of discussing the lifestyle to emphasize proper safety cautions when scening … Continue reading D/s safety
Here's yet another post from 2015 that I still find relevant today. OK. I get it. Second Life lost its luster, real life is getting the better of you for one reason or another, or you want to try out something new, like being someone's finsub, or an anonymous, totally dehumanized rubber dolly. Or simply … Continue reading Abandonment, or, how not to let your submissive go
Here's another post from 2015 that I find still relevant today, so it goes here instead of the archives. Often times the conversations I attend to that speak about D/s within the SL metaverse seem to gravitate towards one big two sided argument. Namely, sub duties and dom rights. It seems to me that that … Continue reading The duties of a Dominant
I published this post originally in 2015; however, the topic at hand continues to be relevant, so I propose it again. In Second Life, the metaverse where I spend most of my free computing time when I'm not otherwise occupied with work or other social activities, I am active in the D/s lifestyle, where I … Continue reading Rights
