For years I have been a supporter and an idea contributor to a project called OpenCollar in Second Life. The project strives to offer a high-quality, open source, scripted D/s collar. I respect that project very much, and support all the effort they have done to create a good product. I will continue to support … Continue reading Introducing D/s Collar: An Experiment in Scripting
In the wake of my recent failure with Kelwyn, I decided to share somehting that has been bothering me for a while -- it needs to be said and put out, to at least know where I am coming from and what is it that I expect when opening myself to a power exchange relationship … Continue reading D/s Back to Basics – Reliability
What am I? That is a question I have been repeatedly asking myself ever since I started traveling the explorative universe of D/s. Yes, dear Reader, you will be taken through my journey in the lifestyle, in an attempt to illustrate from where I came from and how I have reached the conclusion that I … Continue reading What am I, after all?
So, it has been a while since I have updated, and I am sorry about that. There are several novelties on the discovery front that are worthwhile bearing out. First, Per and I are done. It happened over several months of me asking him to pay more attention to me, to be on more reliably. … Continue reading Per and I, or, the end of the road
As you may have noticed, I have not been logging on to Second Life at all for the past week. This is because whilst I have suffered from bouts of depression in the past and have recovered from them fairly quickly, this year I struggled with it for about a week before acknowledging I needed … Continue reading Mental Health Is Not a Mind Game
Recently, I shared with you all that I had found a D for my submissive needs. Per is an excellent person, a strong Dominant, a honourable man, and like me in many ways that make him a very compelling choice for him to be that D that I have been longing for. I may yet … Continue reading Updates to the path
Recently a friend of mine posted in her blog about when is it "too much" in a D/s relationship. I would like to leave a brief relection about that. Too much is when the lines become blurred between what is play and what is abuse; too much is when friends and loved ones worry about … Continue reading A reflection about “too much”
Last time, in announcing that I had found a D to fulfil my submissive needs, I introduced the concept of femaleness vis-à-vis womanhood. In this post, I will attempt to outline and characterise the difference that, in my mind, exists between both. Please note that these are my personal ideas and feelings about my own … Continue reading Of woman and female
Many of you have known me as a strong, outspoken, assertive, dominant woman is Second Life. My dominance, however, is only a part of myself; and one that I have cultivated at the expense of the other part of my D/s self -- my submissive side. For years I have sought someone who understood that … Continue reading A new journey begins
I have been doing a lot of introspecting over the past few weeks; that introspection involved thinking hard about what I am, who I am, and what do I need as a person. The conclusions were interesting, in fact they were an upending of what I have believed to be the truth for many years. … Continue reading A Little Introspection
