For years I have been a supporter and an idea contributor to a project called OpenCollar in Second Life. The project strives to offer a high-quality, open source, scripted D/s collar. I respect that project very much, and support all the effort they have done to create a good product. I will continue to support … Continue reading Introducing D/s Collar: An Experiment in Scripting
What am I? That is a question I have been repeatedly asking myself ever since I started traveling the explorative universe of D/s. Yes, dear Reader, you will be taken through my journey in the lifestyle, in an attempt to illustrate from where I came from and how I have reached the conclusion that I … Continue reading What am I, after all?
So, it has been a while since I have updated, and I am sorry about that. There are several novelties on the discovery front that are worthwhile bearing out. First, Per and I are done. It happened over several months of me asking him to pay more attention to me, to be on more reliably. … Continue reading Per and I, or, the end of the road
As you may have noticed, I have not been logging on to Second Life at all for the past week. This is because whilst I have suffered from bouts of depression in the past and have recovered from them fairly quickly, this year I struggled with it for about a week before acknowledging I needed … Continue reading Mental Health Is Not a Mind Game
Recently, I shared with you all that I had found a D for my submissive needs. Per is an excellent person, a strong Dominant, a honourable man, and like me in many ways that make him a very compelling choice for him to be that D that I have been longing for. I may yet … Continue reading Updates to the path
Here is a 2016 post that I find relevant today; I hope you enjoy reading it. These past days you have been hearing me ranting (rather angrily, admittedly) about some of the more outrageous behaviors I have seen in the Second Life metaverse. Those two posts, Communications blues and I want it all, show in my … Continue reading More about control
And here, dear readers, is a 2016 post on communication that I find still relevant today. How many times do I have to repeat myself? How many friends, submissive friends, have I listened to while they told me their story of breakup and heartache and how that left them vulnerable? Yes, a Domme can have submissive … Continue reading Communication blues
One more pearl from my archives, this time from 2016, which in my opinion does not belong in the archives but here.These past two days I've been feeling indisposed with a nasty stomach flu. I'll not go into details as to what that does to me. However, this time allowed me to think about a … Continue reading Seven letters
This is, again, a post from my 2015 archives that I still find relevant today. This installment will be about safety. In the BDSM lifestyle, as we all know, safety is paramount. So many things can go wrong, that it's never beyond the scope of discussing the lifestyle to emphasize proper safety cautions when scening … Continue reading D/s safety
Here's yet another post from 2015 that I still find relevant today. OK. I get it. Second Life lost its luster, real life is getting the better of you for one reason or another, or you want to try out something new, like being someone's finsub, or an anonymous, totally dehumanized rubber dolly. Or simply … Continue reading Abandonment, or, how not to let your submissive go
